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No Quibbling Cousins

Families are the cornerstone of Anjali Menon's stories and the bonds she depicts through her films are fascinating.

YOU'RE SURE TO FIND an Anjali Menon character in your own family: The prudish cousin who slaves away at his IT job in Bengaluru while yearning for the bucolic delights of his hometown; the aunt who rediscovers herself at an unexpected juncture in her life; the patriarchs who can’t wait to marry off their daughters to the first eligible bachelor in town; and he grandfather who knows love is the secret ingredient that makes all the difference to a glass of Sulaimani.

 

Family is the cornerstone of Menon’s stories. Everything else — be it romance, ambition, or some higher purpose — is secondary to domestic ties.

TIES THAT BIND

We Are Family

By Neelima Menon

COUSINS TO COUNT ON

 

Menon’s fourth film, Bangalore Days — a warm, feel-good dramedy — is centred on the journey of cousins Divya (Nazriya), Kuttan (Nivin Pauly) and Arjun (Dulquer Salmaan). .The bond they share is positively luminous

 

Divya is the youngest, and ambitious. Nevertheless, she agrees to an arranged marriage with Das (Fahadh Faasil). It is to Kuttan and Arjun that she confides her travails — from getting cold feet on the morning of her wedding, to opening up about her emotionally unavailable spouse. Even the breakthrough in her marriage comes due to her cousin’s intervention. 

 

Kuttan is the most “sorted” one in the group. Despite working in a Bengaluru IT firm, his heart is firmly in his village in Kerala. He is so endearingly naïve that he goes crimson when he witnesses a couple kissing in public. Kuttan also comes across as an empathetic soul and has a quiet strength in him that is very comforting. He understands Divya and Aju more than they perhaps realise.

 

Arjun, on the other hand, is the stereotypical child of a broken home. He is a loner, rebel, short-tempered — and a sympathetic glance from his elderly relatives can rile him. In Menon’s world, he is almost treated like a pariah in the family. That’s why Arjun only reaches out to Divya and Kuttan from among his relatives.

 

Divya never really shakes her status quo at any point. Though she pledges her gold ornaments to continue her education, she is also working to make things right in Das’ life — including forging a relationship with his deceased girlfriend’s parents to bring him redemption. And interestingly Das doesn’t raise a finger to make things easier for her, shutting himself out from her completely, thereby putting their marriage in jeopardy. It is only when he is forgiven by the parents of his late lover that he gets drawn toward Divya. Yet another story of a woman facilitating a man’s coming-of-age journey, which is present in the relationship between Arjun and Sara as well.  

 

Sara is refreshing if you look at how a woman in a wheelchair isn’t made into a pitying figure. While one can’t rule out the fact that she comes from a privileged family, it is still nice to see how her disability never impacts her self-esteem or ambitions. Even in their romance, it is Aju who is battling insecurities while Sara seems to be in charge of her life. But eventually, it is only when Sara’s mother sees Arjun with his cousins that she feels he is worth Sara giving up her scholarship in Australia for.

 

Kuttan’s mother (Kalpana) is another superb characterisation. A tired trope is masterfully turned on its head with her. When her husband abandons her, instead of moping around, she quickly shakes off the persona of a dutiful wife and self-sacrificing mother and happily embraces the opportunities of urban life. It is Kuttan who finds his mother’s metamorphosis hard to take.

 

In a sense, Kuttan, Aju and Divya are grown-up versions of Vicky, Kannan and Manikutty from Manjadikuru, Menon’s debut. They have created their own world, not letting class or caste come in their way. Even when they are disillusioned with the adult world, what remains constant is their relationship with each other. Not unlike the cousins in Bangalore Days.

 

FEUDING FAMILY  

 

In Manjadikuru, the sale of their ancestral home (tharavadu) leads to a family reunion. It splits open the power dynamics and petty politics between siblings and family members. We witness unresolved disputes and grudges that have passed down from generation to generation. Siblings who live and work abroad trade barbs with those who stayed back. The film captures the subtle nuances of the class divide within a family that comprises both blue-collar NRIs and “highly skilled” NRI.

 

GRAND-EST OF ALL

 

Though it is narrated with undertones of humour, the initial portions of Ustad Hotel (directed by Anwar Rasheed and written by Anjali Menon) are no laughing matter. It introduces us to a conservative Muslim household where women are primarily caregivers, and a woman’s place is defined according to the number of sons she gives birth to. When his mother dies after delivering baby Faizi — preceded by four girls — we are told that perhaps her role was no longer needed since she gave birth to a boy. The daughters are sidelined by the father who is hyper-focused on his son. But when the son shows an inclination towards what the father condescendingly calls “a woman’s job”, they have a falling out.

 

The primary relationship in Ustad Hotel is between Faizi and his estranged grandfather Kareem. On the other hand, Faizi’s romance with the feisty Shahana is a mere postscript. Faizi’s internship under his granddad defines his personality and character arc. That old adage of traits skipping a generation finds expression in the film, and creates a sense of poetic roundedness for the narrative. Kareemkka’s theory that food should satiate the mind as well as the body is taken forward by his grandson. At the end of the film, not only does Faizi finally understand what drives him to be a chef, but he also mends fences with his autocratic father.

 

NO SIBLING RIVALRY

 

Koode’s Joshua (Prithviraj Sukumaran) is perhaps one of Menon’s most poignant characters. Ever since he was separated from his family and baby sister at the age of 15, Joshua’s life was never the same again. The trauma of being abused by an uncle and being abandoned by his own family have made him a recluse. It’s when he starts hallucinating about his sister and strikes up a heartwarming bond with her illusory presence that the heaviness within him starts to thaw. It leads to former bonds being resurrected and Joshua’s life taking a turn for the better.

 

Menon’s films hold out the promise of a happy ending: Conflicts are resolved, families find a way back to each other and life starts to look up again. No wonder an Anjali Menon film is always looked forward to! 

 

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